Life, Marriage & Family

  • Faithful Citizenship

    In civic life all people of good will are challenged to make decisions on political issues with consideration of the ethical implications. Each person’s decision making process will have a framework, either grounded in maintaining a balance of interests and power or one grounded by an understanding of what is right and good. Society is better served when the framework of the decision making process begins with moral principles for guidance. Catholic social teaching is such a framework, indicating a moral obligation flowing from baptism for Catholics, and offering a challenge for all people of good will.

    Catholic social teaching is framed around seven key themes:

    1. The right to life and the dignity of the human person: because human life is sacred it is to be protected and, with human dignity, is foundational to the other themes. 

    2. Call to family, community, and participation: marriage defined as between a woman and a man, family sustainable wages, parental right to choose education, and safe media are sample issues.  The principle of subsidiarity informs the restraint of larger institutions, preferring the most local effective level to meet needs, protect dignity, and advance the common good.

    3. Rights and responsibilities: basic requirements such as food and shelter, education, employment, health care, housing, and freedom of religion – public and private - respect human dignity, and suggest corresponding responsibilities to one another and the larger society. 

    4. Preferential option for the poor and vulnerable: this reframes the political question from “how am I doing” to “how do we treat those most in need.” 

    5. Dignity of work and the rights of workers: the economy is meant to serve people (not people the economy) and should ensure just wages, the right to work and organize, economic freedom and initiative - for the well-being of all. 

    6. Solidarity with the human family: that the U.S. has a proper role in global issues of human and religious rights, poverty, and regional conflicts stems from the connection shared by all people as a single human family.  

    7. Care for creation: respecting and protecting all of creation is a moral obligation for future generations.

    A short primer of these principles, applied to current issues, can be found (beginning in paragraph 40) in “The Challenge of Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship,” (CFCFC) published by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops in November 2007, and available on www.faithfulcitizenship.org.

    The greatest difficulty can be applying the framework to make a decision. The first part of CFCFC elaborates on the role of the Church in helping make the decision. It is acknowledged that the ordering of society and the state is the proper role of politics. Pope Benedict XVI teaches in the encyclical “God is Love”:   “The Church wishes to help form consciences in political life and to stimulate greater insight into authentic requirements of justice as well greater readiness to act accordingly, even when this might involve conflict with situations of personal interest….The Church cannot and must not take upon herself the political battle to bring about the most just society possible. She cannot and must not replace the State. Yet at the same time she cannot and must not remain on the sidelines in the fight for justice.” 

    The Church has a crucial role, but the decision is the responsibility of the faithful citizen who is challenged to first form conscience (prayerfully studying scripture and the teaching of the Church), and then exercise prudence (knowing what is the true good in a circumstance and the right way to achieve it). Many issues that may be considered social issues on the political landscape are in fact moral issues for Catholics and the requirement to both do good and avoid evil is a moral obligation guiding the choice. When the issues need to be weighed it is important to remember that they are not morally equivalent. Some things are intrinsically evil, and must always be opposed; abortion and euthanasia are fundamental current examples.  However, this moral distinction gives no one a pass to ignore the other issues. Living out our baptismal call in our civic responsibilities doesn’t end with casting a vote. In fact, the heart of the process to impact the moral issues will need ongoing participation in community programs and legislative agendas.  

    For additional guidance on making moral choices in preparing to vote please refer to paragraphs 31 through 39 in CFCFC. 

    Some final notes:

    In an address to members of the European Parliament (March 2006), Pope Benedict XVI described non-negotiable principles for the Church’s public policy concerns:

    As far as the Catholic Church is concerned, the principal focus of her interventions in the public arena is the protection and promotion of the dignity of the person, and she is thereby consciously drawing particular attention to principles which are not negotiable. Among these the following emerge clearly today:

    * protection of life in all its stages, from the first moment of conception until natural death;

    * recognition and promotion of the natural structure of the family--as a union between a man and a woman based on marriage--and its defense from attempts to make it juridically equivalent to radically different forms of union which in reality harm it and contribute to its destabilization, obscuring its particular character and its irreplaceable social role;

    * the protection of the right of parents to educate their children.

    In his encyclical letter, The Gospel of Life, Pope John Paul II said:

    "It is impossible to further the common good without acknowledging and defending the right to life, upon which all the other inalienable rights of individuals are founded and from which they develop."

    In their statement, Living the Gospel of Life, the Bishops of the United States said:

    "Opposition to abortion and euthanasia does not excuse indifference to those who suffer from poverty, violence and injustice. Any politics of human life must work to resist the violence of war and the scandal of capital punishment. Any politics of human dignity must seriously address issues of racism, poverty, hunger, employment, education, housing, and health care. Therefore, Catholics should eagerly involve themselves as advocates for the weak and marginalized in all these areas. Catholic public officials are obliged to address each of these issues as they seek to build consistent policies which promote respect for the human person at all stages of life. But being 'right' in such matters can never excuse a wrong choice regarding direct attacks on innocent human life. "

    pdf Click here(217 KB)  for Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship in outline form with bullet points. 

  • Family Resources

    Resources

    Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love
    Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of Love) is a post-Synodal apostolic exhortation by Pope Francis on love in the family. It was signed on 19 March 2016 on the Solemnity of St. Joseph, and brings together the results of the two Synods on the family convoked by Pope Francis in 2014 and 2015. It frequently cites their final Reports, documents and teachings of his predecessors, and his own numerous catecheses on the family, as well as contributions of various Episcopal Conferences around the world.

    Family Life and Parenting - For Your Marriage 
    “The joy of love experienced by families is also the joy of the Church” (Pope Francis, Amoris Laetitia, no. 1).
    Family life – though not without its challenges – is a great gift! It is in the family that all of us learn what it means to love and be loved, to forgive, and how to maintain relationships over time. The family is called to welcome others, in particular children, and to care for those in need. Content in this section can help families become places of prayer and faith (domestic Churches) and navigate the challenges that come with parenting, extended family relationships, caregiving, and more.

    Called to the Joy of Love: National Pastoral Framework for Marriage and Family Life Ministry 
    The document “Called to the Joy of Love: National Pastoral Framework for Marriage and Family Life Ministry” was developed by the Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB).


    Resources for Building a Strong Catholic Family

    Strong Catholic Family Faith
    Strong Catholic Family Faith seeks to empower parents and Catholic leaders to form faith-filled Catholic families. Research and Church teaching state the importance of parents in the faith formation of their children. They curate relevant content and meaningful experiences so that parents might better pass on the faith to their families and Catholic leaders are equipped to support them.

    CatholicHOM
    CatholicHOM stands for Catholic Households on Mission. What’s the mission? To help each other love like Christ.CatholicHOM is the first digital platform dedicated to helping Catholic families encounter Christ more meaningfully at home and draw closer to each other by living the Liturgy of Domestic Church Life.


    Resources that Address Pornography

    Create in Me a Clean Heart - USCCB
    The U.S. bishops approved the formal statement Create in Me a Clean Heart: A Pastoral Response to Pornography (en Español) at their November 2015 General Assembly. 

    "Everyone, in some way, is affected by increased pornography use in society. We all suffer negative consequences from its distorted view of the human person and sexuality. As bishops, we are called to proclaim anew the abundant mercy and healing of God found in Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, and through his Church." -Introduction

    Pornography's Effects on Marriage & Hope for Married Couples 
    By Sam and Beth Meier. This article is part of the USCCB "Clean Heart" series and is a companion resource to the USCCB formal statement Create in Me a Clean Heart: A Pastoral Response to Pornography. 

    Raising Chaste Children in a Pornographic World
    We live in a sexually broken culture. In modern times, the prevalence of pornography has become a pressing problem for parents. Here are five steps parents can take to raise chaste children in a pornographic world. This article is part of the USCCB "Clean Heart" series and is a companion resource to the USCCB formal statement Create in Me a Clean Heart: A Pastoral Response to Pornography. 


    Theology of the Body Resources

    Ruah Woods Institute 
    The Ruah Woods Institute offers resources and K-12 curriculum for growing your God-given identity, written in language made for today’s world.

    Envision: Theology of the Body for Middle School - Ascension Press
    All hearts, especially the hearts of young people, are hungry for God’s truth about love, identity, and dignity. Middle schoolers today are constantly asking questions about who they are, who they should be, and where true success and happiness can be found. Countless sources—including pop culture, social media, and their peers—are ready to provide them answers. Amidst all the confusion, St. John Paul II’s Theology of the Body offers clear answers about our identity, relationships, and sexuality and Ascension’s program makes this timeless wisdom accessible and relatable to middle school students.


    Resources that Help Girls Understand Their Cycle

    Pearl &Thistle
    Pearl and Thistle is Catholic cycle awareness and fertility education for your family. Teaching your kids about cycles and periods can be Catholic, rooted in science, and age-appropriate, but not awkward. Teach them the language of their bodies with catholic courses and resources. 


    Marriage Unique for a Reason

    Made for Life

    Learn more:
    • Viewer’s Guide with discussion questions
    • Resource Booklet for priests, deacons, catechists, and teachers
    • FAQs on the gift of children and the need for fathers and mothers


    Lenten Family Activities
    Enrich your family’s Lenten experience with stories, prayers, meatless recipes and more.
    Rooted in the history of the Eucharistic Congress, CRS Rice Bowl invites Catholic families in the United States to encounter God and our global family throughout Lent by practicing the pillars of prayer, fasting and almsgiving. As you and your family experience deeper communion with the Eucharist during this sacred season, may this encounter with the Bread of Life lead you to share bread for life with our sisters and brothers most in need around the world. 

  • Marriage Enrichment

     

    World Wide Marriage Encounter 

    World Wide Marriage Encounter presents weekend experiences for married couples to rekindle romance, enhance meaningful communication, and deepen and renew commitment.
    Upcoming experiences are below:

    2/27/26-3/1/26, New Albany, IM
    3/20/26-3/22/26, Carthage, MO
    4/17/26-4/19/26, St. Peter's, MO
    10/9/26-10/11/26, Springfield, IL

    To apply for a weekend, click here


    For Your Marriage


    For Your Marriage helps couples at all stages of life to understand and live God’s plan for happy, holy marriages by providing educational and spiritual resources. Click here for an article from For Your Marriage


     

     



     



    Retrouvaille - A Lifeline for Married Couples 

    Retrouvaille is a program for married couples facing difficult challenges to help them heal and renew their hurting marriages.
    Click here for more information

     

     


    Catholic Conference of Illinois Toolkit

    The Catholic Conference of Illinois (CCI) is the public policy vote of the Catholic Church in Illinois. To further the work of CCI, the Defense of Marriage Department has created this Toolkit on Marriage to publicly articulate the Church's teachings regarding marriage. It offers and explains concepts key to Church teaching and provides the best resources available for understanding and defending marriage.
    Please click here for a downloadable PDF

     


    Beloved: Finding Happiness in Marriage...Beloved - From The Augustine Institute 

    Long before cultures or governments ever discussed marriage, God placed on the human heart a longing for the unique, lifelong commitment, and total self-giving love found in the Sacrament of Matrimony. What does God's design mean for us in our daily lives together?
    In 12 sessions, Beloved uncovers the mystery and the meaning of the sacrament of marriage, inviting all couples to experience the wonder, mystery, and joy behind that first “I do”... whether you said it last year or many years ago. Originally created for marriage preparation, the Beloved series is enriching and transforming marriages in homes across the globe.     
                       


    Renewed: 7 Steps to a Joyful MarriageRenewed - From Real Life Catholic 

    Get intentional about the most important relationship in your entire life: your marriage. Maybe you are in good times, or maybe you are dealing with profound crosses. No matter where you are coming from, God wants your marriage to be a thriving source of joy. The Renewed video series will give simple steps that you can implement in your busy life.

     


    Little Way of Marriage WorkshopThe Little Way of Marriage 

    The Little Way of Marriage is a spiritual and practical roadmap to help your Catholic marriage, based on the spirituality of St. Therese of Lisieux. St. Therese became one of the greatest saints by learning to do little things with great love. She teaches us how to be other-centered, how to trust in God, and how little actions done for others with great love can transform our lives (and the world!) The Little Way of Marriage takes those powerful spiritual truths from St. Therese and shows you step-by-step how to apply them to your marriage.

     
     
     
     
     

    Grand Coteau Retreats - Couples Retreats 
    The Church in her wisdom has always seen fit to exhort her members, the Body of Christ, to take time away from the world each year to rest in the loving gaze of our Lord by making a retreat. Grand Coteau Retreats offers an ideal environment for married couples seeking to rediscover Christ in their marriage. Each retreat is typically guided by a mentor couple and a priest. 

     


    Paradisus DeiThe Choice Wine - Paradisus Dei

    Integrating the latest findings from modern science with the timeless teaching of the faith and the wisdom of the saints, The Choice Wine: 7 Steps to a Superabundant Marriage places authentic marital happiness within every couple’s reach. By opening to couples the interior life of the Holy Family at Nazareth, The Choice Wine helps couples to experience a foretaste of Paradise in their marriage and family.

  • Marriage Preparation

    We, the Catholic Church of the Diocese of Belleville, offer you warm and heartfelt congratulations on your engagement! This is a wonderful and exciting time for you as you plan for your new life together. It can often be scary and overwhelming as you begin to look at all the preparation that goes into planning your wedding day. This guide, Your Wedding in the Catholic Church, is designed to assist you as you prepare to celebrate your marriage in the context of the Christian community. It is our hope that you will take the time to talk and pray together as you read and reflect on the material presented here.

    Because Christian Marriage is a sacrament, the Catholic Church wants couples to be well-prepared. Parishes offer marriage preparation to help couples develop a better understanding of the sacrament; to evaluate and deepen their readiness to live married life; and to gain insights into themselves as individuals and as a couple.

    The important thing for engaged couples to keep in mind as they check off numerous items on their pre-wedding "to-do" list is the well-known adage, "Your wedding lasts a day, but your marriage lasts a lifetime." The Church encourages couples to invest time and energy into the all-important work of preparing for their married life together.

    For couples planning to marry in the Catholic Church, please contact your parish priest six to nine months before your anticipated wedding date to begin the marriage preparation process. 


    If you are involved in marriage preparation in your parish, and need to facilitate the marriage inventory but haven’t had the training, click here to sign up for Prepare/Enrich Marriage Inventory Facilitator Training. 


    Videos on the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony 

    Pope Francis: Marriage is too important to rush

    Why get married in the Catholic Church?

    What happens at a Catholic wedding?

    Marriage: Made for Life

    The Family: Like a Cathedral 

  • Project Rachel

    “I finally feel like I have the support I’ve been needing, and I am so grateful!” ~Project Rachel Ministry client

    Hope and Healing after Abortion (Project Rachel)

    Chances are that if you are visiting this page, you have had an abortion or know someone who has.

    Abortion is a life-changing event that affects individuals emotionally, spiritually and physically.  You may have experienced the need to seek healing right after your abortion, or it may have taken many years for you to come to this place.

    The truth is that you are suffering from a traumatic loss—and that loss is real.

    With abortion, society doesn’t provide a public way to grieve this loss.  With no way to process this loss, the wound caused by abortion often remains unhealed and becomes a secret sorrow carried alone…and without support.

    You may be suffering from guilt, sadness, isolation, nightmares, addictions, eating disorders, anxiety and other negative emotions and behaviors. Many women and men are surprised at the emotions they experience after abortion which can include, but certainly are not limited to those mentioned above.

    It is most important for you to know that you are not alone. We want to reach out to you with the mercy and love of Christ and help you be at peace with yourself and God. While abortion is part of your history, it doesn’t need to define your future.

    There is hope. There is help. If you or someone you know is suffering after abortion, please contact Project Rachel through the Diocese of Belleville in Illinois at 618-722-5068. If you reach the voicemail, please leave a message and we will call you back when it is a good time for you.

    Please call our helpline for more information and to talk to someone who is sensitive to what you are going through. Hope is here and peace starts now.

    Coordinator  
    Mrs. Molly King
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    Office of Life, Marriage, & Family
    Diocese of Belleville in Illinois

     

     

      

     


    “We have created a web-based healing study, as an option for you to begin your healing process.  We have posted the first two chapters here to begin your journey.  Why not give them a try? After you have completed these first two chapters, you may then contact me for Chapter 3.  It will remain confidential.  This is for you- decide to make a positive change in your life.

    Lesson 1-Does God Really Care? ( PDF )

    Lesson 2-Does Anyone Else Feel Like Me? ( PDF )

  • Respect Life

    The mission of the Office of Respect Life Apostolate is to inform and promote the principle that human life, at all stages from conception to natural death, is a gift from God,
    worthy of respect and protection.

    The Office of Respect Life is a resource for finding the latest updates on upcoming events, facts, and statistics on life issues.  Join us in the many opportunities to show our commitment to the sanctity of life an the dignity of every human person.

    On this site you can find resources and information of how to help respect life, both in prayer and action, for the following topics:


    Recent Events


    Respect Life Conference - November 15, 2025


    Hope and Healing after Abortion (Project Rachel)

    “I finally feel like I have the support I’ve been needing, and I am so grateful!” ~ current Project Rachel Ministry client

    Chances are that if you are visiting this page, you have had an abortion or know someone who has.

    Abortion is a life-changing event that affects individuals emotionally, spiritually and physically.  You may have experienced the need to seek healing right after your abortion, or it may have taken many years for you to come to this place.

    The truth is that you are suffering from a traumatic loss—and that loss is real.

    With abortion, society doesn’t provide a public way to grieve this loss.  With no way to process this loss, the wound caused by abortion often remains unhealed and becomes a secret sorrow carried alone…and without support.

    You may be suffering from guilt, sadness, isolation, nightmares, addictions, eating disorders, anxiety and other negative emotions and behaviors. Many women and men are surprised at the emotions they experience after abortion which can include, but certainly are not limited to those mentioned above.

    It is most important for you to know that you are not alone! We want to reach out to you with the mercy and love of Christ and help you be at peace with yourself and God. While abortion is part of your history, it doesn’t need to define your future.

    There is hope. There is help. If you or someone you know is suffering after abortion, please contact Project Rachel through the Diocese of Belleville in Illinois at 618-722-5031. The help line is answered live Monday and Thursday, 8 a.m.- 4:30 p.m. If you reach the voicemail, please leave a message and we will call you back when it is a good time for you.

    Project Rachel also organizes “Mass of Hope,” Day of Prayer and Healing, and works in collaboration with the Diocese of Springfield, Illinois in offering healing retreats for those suffering from abortion. Please call our helpline for more information and to talk to someone who is sensitive to what you are going through. Hope is here and peace starts now.

    “We have created a web-based healing study, as an option for you to begin your healing process. We have posted the first two chapters here to begin your journey. Why not give them a try? After you have completed these first two chapters, you may then contact me for Chapter 3. It will remain confidential. This is for you- decide to make a positive change in your life.

    Lesson 1-Does God Really Care? ( PDF )

    Lesson 2-Does Anyone Else Feel Like Me? ( PDF )

    Coordinator 
    Mrs. Molly King

    This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. 
    Program Director, Project Rachel
    Diocese of Belleville in Illinois


    Pregnancy Resource Centers in Southern Illinois 

    Click here to download Metro-East Vicariate Resources

    Click here to download North Central Vicariate Resources

    Click here to download West Vicariate Resources

    Click here to download South Vicariate Resources

    Click here to download East Vicariate Resources  


    St. Anne Cradle of Hope, Carbondale, IL 

    St. Anne Cradle of Hope is a nonprofit Catholic organization that provides material and spiritual assistance to pregnant women and families with young children. We seek to save lives and strengthen families by helping a mother know that she and her baby are loved and valued. We strive to work with other Christians in the community, and together provide material assistance to anyone in need by distributing diapers, wipes, formula, bathing necessities, clothing, and other items for mother and child. We seek to help pregnant women in the community choose life for their babies by providing practical assistance and emotional support while sharing God’s love and plan for their lives. We are committed to upholding the Sanctity of Human Life and demonstrating the love of Christ.

    View our latest video about the work of St. Anne Cradle of Hope:













    Faith, Friendship & A Christmas Dinner: A Christian Response to the Culture of Death

    View our 2024 Respect Life Conference Keynote Address by Father Levi James



    Resources


    How to Talk to a Friend Who's Had an Abortion

    Click Here For A Downloadable  PDF

     


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  • St. Anne Cradle of Hope


     Mission Statement

    St. Anne Cradle of Hope is a nonprofit Catholic organization that provides material and spiritual assistance to pregnant women and families with young children.  We seek to save lives and strengthen families by helping a mother know that she and her baby are loved and valued.

    At St. Anne Cradle of Hope, we strive to work with other Christians in the community, and together provide material assistance to anyone in need by distributing diapers, wipes, formula, bathing necessities, clothing, and other items for mother and child.  We seek to help pregnant women in the community choose life for their babies by providing practical assistance and emotional support while sharing God’s love and plan for their lives. 

    We are committed to upholding the Sanctity of Human Life and demonstrating the love of Christ.



    Contact Us​ 
    St. Anne Cradle of Hope 
    2015 West Main Street, Suite B
    Carbondale, IL  62901
     

    Email:  This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. 
    Phone: 618-722-5022  
    Hours: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday: 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m., Thursday: 1:00 p.m. -- 4:00 p.m., Third Saturday of the month: 9:00 a.m. -- 12:00 p.m.


    Check out our Amazon Wish List and have baby items delivered to our door!

    Click here for Our Amazon Wish List

    St. Anne Cradle of Hope is a nonprofit 501 (c) (3) that provides baby items to pregnant women and families with young children in need.


    Thank you so much for your interest in contributing to the St. Anne Cradle of Hope.  St. Anne Cradle of Hope wants to lend a helping hand to pregnant women and young families by providing material assistance to those in need. 
    We seek to help pregnant women in the community choose life for their babies.

    Click Here to Donate

     


    Cradle of Hope Newsletter

    Please Click here for our Newsletter - Volume 1, Issue 1 

    We Choose Life - Respect Life Month October 2024


    A special thank you to the National Honor Society and Jr. St. Vincent DePaul members at St. Teresa School in Belleville who made Diaper Cakes for families in need at St. Anne Cradle of Hope in Carbondale.  Over 220 families are being served at the Cradle. 

     


     


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  • Upcoming Events

     

    2026 Pre-Cana Retreats

    For more information, email Molly at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. 

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • Walking With Moms In Need

  • What is NFP?

    Natural Family Planning Ministry

    Natural family planning (NFP) is a general name for the methods of family planning that are based on a woman’s menstrual cycle. A man is fertile throughout his life, while a woman is fertile for only a few days each cycle during child-bearing years. Modern methods of NFP are based on extensive medical research and are able to account for variable length cycles. A woman experiences clear, observable signs indicating when she is fertile and when she is infertile. Learning to observe and understand these signs is at the heart of education in natural family planning.

    When a couple decides to postpone pregnancy, NFP can be very effective. NFP can also be very helpful for couples who desire to have a child because it identifies the time of ovulation. It is used by many fertility specialists for this purpose. Thus a couple can have marital relations at a time when they know that conception is most likely to occur.

     


    Use the QR Codes to listen to Fr. Mike Schmitz read these rich excerpts of the Catechism and the reflect on their meaning. 

     


    Testimonials

      • "It's reassuring that NFP is what God wants us to do in our marriage. We feel blessed to have this knowledge of our bodies that generations in the past did not have. It's helped us appreciate each other's bodies as a beautiful gift from God, rather than as an object to be used for our own gratification. Because of NFP, we have grown closer physically, emotionally, and spiritually." ~Trent & Ashley

      • "The couples I know who practice NFP tell me how much it helps their marriage since it requires ongoing conversation about the most intimate part of their relationship." ~Fr. Jim Deiters, St. Clare Parish in O'Fallon

      • "If you open up your mind and heart to the teaching of the Church on contraception, through the intercession of Our Blessed Mother, conversion to Christ is possible. Natural Family Planning frees the heart to live as God intended all along." ~Dr. Rick Brennan, MD

      • "My husband and I had used contraception on and off for the first 13 years of our marriage, but when we discovered The Theology of the Body in 2002, it changed our lives forever. We learned for the first time what real love is, how it is communicated, and how to live it within marriage. The truth of “free, faithful, total and fruitful love” pierced our hearts. We wanted the real thing—and no longer desired the counterfeit of contraception. We threw out the contraception, received the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and we have never looked back. It was the best decision we ever made for our marriage, for our family life, and for our faith life!" ~Patty Schneier